Parents and preschools share common goals — to help children learn important life skills, succeed at what they do, and stay safe and happy. Educators need families to be actively involved and work together with them to achieve these outcomes.
How can parents and educators build trust and forge strong partnerships? These strategies will help you get off on the right foot with your child’s educator.
When educators and parents work together, everyone benefits — children most of all.
STRIVE FOR OPEN, TWO-WAY COMMUNICATION
Establish open, constructive communication with educators. Inform them of your preferred mode of communication — in person, phone call or text messaging. Encourage them to share updates on your child’s progress and be receptive to their feedback.
Discuss any concerns you may have about your child’s learning, development and well-being, or areas requiring more attention. This ensures both parties are on the same page in supporting your child’s growth.
GET INVOLVED IN PRESCHOOL ACTIVITIES AND DECISION-MAKING
Participate in preschool events, charity drives and class projects, or help organise these events. For instance, volunteer to read stories to the class. These experiences strengthen parent-educator relationships and create a supportive environment for your child’s development.
Parents can approach educators to inquire about opportunities to contribute to classroom activities.
COMPLEMENT EACH OTHER
Exchange information and insights to learn from each other and better understand your child’s needs, interests and areas for improvement. This will help align the strategies at home and in preschool.
For example, share with the educator of your child’s first steps at home. They can then create opportunities to provide appropriate support.
PUT YOURSELF IN THE OTHER PERSON’S SHOES
Communicate respectfully and tactfully, even when disagreeing with educators. Try listening to their perspective without interpreting it as a complaint or criticism. Remember that preschools have their own operational and professional considerations. Being flexible and adaptable to alternative solutions or suggestions helps.
Challenges are inevitable in any relationship. When these arise, be patient, understanding and respectful. Positive parent-teacher interactions will strengthen your child’s sense of security and self-confidence.
